As I opened my eyes on that first morning in England I realised that nothing happened...I was were I wanted to be and who I waited so long to be with...it sounds sopping, and I totally understand if you need a bucket right now, but waking up with Dean after a night out knowing that I never have to wake up without him for more then a month ever again was amazing....event though he did snore and smell a bit like booze (definitely honeymoon faze!).
After 'sleeping in' until 9:30 (I know, not a sleep in for some!) Dean and I got ready to head down to our second home, Romford. A town just 30 minuet train ride out of London (the second love of my life), which I found out is a lot bigger then little Sandy, and also includes a H&M, Topshop, River Island and Primark! If you don't know what these shops are, then do yourself a favour and google it...or if you're a guy, then hide all devices your ladies can access the Internet, as these shops now sell online :S
Anyways, Dean and I headed off on the 1.5 hour drive down to Romford. As we nearly got there dean gasps in horror...(oh know what's he done?!) "I don't have the bloody keys for the Romford house!".....oh....fucking....no.....
So if you haven't done the maths already that is a 3 hour round trip to grab them from the sandy house.... Again, I just laughed.... That's the only thing you can do in those situations I guess.... Dean has done another Dean'o.
With a quick call to Dean's boss we are in luck! Which always seems to happen with us two... We do some really dumb things, but we always seem to get away with it....knock wood!
Well we met Dean's boss at this pub in Romford where they were holding a mod meet! :-O Mods in their natural habitat! It was amazing....there were so many scooters there! However, no actual mods as they were all old scruffy men... Well, except for my boy, who always looks smart and rocks the sideburns :)
After a drink in the sun with Dean's boss and then grabbing some supplies from Tescos we were off to our second home!
We pulled up to this little house which the English call a Bungalow, which says how small the place was....but a nice small...more cozy then small. Perfect for a couple starting out and it had everything we need.
Dean had been worried that I wouldn't like it as it was old, small and a little run down. However, I think that it had charm, and to be honest I didn't care where we lived as long as there was a comfy bed, warm water, heating, internet and a TV (Again, ask me how i feel about this in 3 months)! Plus it was only a walk into town which would make it perfect for gym, work, train to London and SHOPPING AT H&M!! Hehe.
That afternoon Dean and I made amazing burritos and ate them on the floor of our living room while we watched what we later found out was the last set of Wimbledon with Andy Murray and Novak! Dean is so cute how he gets so into a sport and he really feels the emotions that come with it...I just can't seem to get as into it. It think its coz my family and I never had a team we supported and never got to develop those strong feelings for a team where you feel like you are apart of a team and if they lose you feel like you lose... Deans one true love is Spurs, his football (Scoccar) team! He said that when its football season it's really going to show me his dark and crazy side....I might just go to the gym or go to a friends then and leave him to it....
Well, as you all know, he won!!! Dean and I jumped up and screamed and did this gay highfived in delight!
I never realised it, but these are the moments I have been looking forward to... Not that I got to enjoy such a life event while eating burritos on the living room floor with my boyfriend, but I got to enjoy it with my bestfriend!
The thing about Dean and I is that we 'get' each other and have always been able to make each other laugh... I am not with him because I feel I need to have a boyfriend or because I THINK he MIGHT be the guy for me. I am with him because he makes me laugh like no one else, he loves the same activities as me, he is so caring, he is the most modest person I know, he is ambitious, he doesn't follow the crowd, he shares the same morals and values as i do, he is a family man, good with money, he is the most giving person I know, he truly loves me for me and everyone in my life and most of all....he is a massive weirdo, just like me ;P I can honestly say that I wouldn't change a thing about him.... Even is Dean'os :P
I think it was also the right timing...when i met Dean the 2nd time i knew who my most authentic self was, i was happy with myself and my life. The 2nd time you ask? yep, thats the crazy thing! You know those English boys Jane and I met in Thailand, well one of those was...you guessed it...Dean! All I remember saying to him was hi when we met in Thailand as I was tired that night and left early. I had a boyfriend then so nothing would have happened anyways, but I am so glad it didn't as I was so different back then (superficial, a little selfish and immature) and I know we wouldn't have worked out. It amazing how timing can have so much to do with things working out... Have you ever had that? Where you feel like you are in the right place at the right time...or that things that happened in your past have brought you to being the person you are and leads you to that someone special or a life changing event like getting that job you didn't know you wanted..... or leading you to living in England with and English boyfriend and experiencing a life you didn't even know you wanted until it happened. I guess that a lot of people do feel that way, as the saying "everything happens for a reason" exists.
Dean doing the washing up in our Romford kitchen. Well trained eh ;P
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